Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of John Wickenden with the following comment:
Trying to find the date of death of my 3rd great grandmother Esther Wickenden. I believed she had died in the Wrotham, Kent area but this record of her husband (and the fact he died earlier) tallies with my records, so perhaps they were buried futher afield than I believed. The image would be much appreciated to help corroborate my new theory! Many thanks in advance.